Anonymous asked this question on 6/14/2000:
Dear Sakara:
There is a very attractive woman I watched from a distance at my workplace,on and off for over a year. I have not had the opportunity to establish a natural conversation with her. Although I am very comfortable talking one to one,I am not an extrovert. I casually expressed my admiration for this woman to my friend's girlfriend.I don't like to jump into anything. Despite the fact she did not seem to know her very well,she 'abruptly' introduced us. Her hand shake seemed 'stiff',perhaps surprised and slightly suspicious of the sudden introduction. She comes to dance and I go there as a working musician in the band. She does not make direct eye contact with me, she seems to choose to dance 'in front' of me sometimes. Last Sunday,in an outdoors summer resort,she did so and then she sat down 30 feet across from me in her green summer dress,long black hair let down,sunglasses and sandals. To my surprise,her sitting posture was with her legs side by side,slightly separated,'aiming' at me. I was just there doing my job,wearing sunglasses,and could not help clearly noticing the front part of her white underwear. If I was her,I would have known she was in my viewing range. She was very casual about it,but did it more than once. I wonder if she is teasing me because she likes to feel attractive,or if she may be specifically inviting me to get closer. Is this matter worth asking the Tarot?
Sakara gave this response on 6/14/2000
Dear Anonymous,
The following cards appear for you:
Your first card is the Six of Rods reversed. The Six of Rods reversed (illdignified) indicates a fear of successful rivals. This is interesting since in this year of seeing this lady you do not speak of her as being involved with another man. You are right about the body language. That is not coincidence. The lady knows well what she is doing. The Six indicates that your own insecurities, in this case unjustified, are standing in your way.
Your second card is The Moon. The Moon is the card of mystery and it is the card of woman. This lady wants you to make the first move. She is drawing you more and more. Yes, she wants a reaction from you. She will keep her air of mystery until you give her the reaction she wants. The only way you can know what reaction she wants is to make this game real. Ask her to something. A show, a concert, an after-hours band party. Invite her into your inner circle. If you are only a game to her then she will have received the response she was looking for and decline your offer. Then the mystery ends. If you are more than a game, and if she too hides her fears and insecurities, she will welcome your invitation, and this relationship will finally begin.
Your third card is the Three of Rods reversed. This is a card of difficulties overcome. Clearly, one of you must bring this obvious mutual attraction into the light of day. I suggest you make the move she is waiting for.
The best to you,
Sakara
Response: Your reading and comments are excellent |
